immigration

the horrors of going through the procedures ,the nightmares of going to the office waiting for them to judge you wether you are eligible or not . just imagine someone else judging you!

Reaching out

It’s so strange when you receive a post or e-mail from a friend from school, whom you were very close to, could’nt think of a day without her can fade away in course of time. It’s like a shock, you sit down and think about what happened ?where did the time fly away?why did’nt  you keep in touch ?  why did you choose to disconnect yourself ?well thanks to face book we have found each other.not exactly found but personally struggling to find a common ground to begin.The fear of putting yourself up ,of proving yourself, of not feeling happy about sharing your life events with someone, someone whom you were so close to , some one who accepted you the way you were,some one who did’nt care whether you failed or passed .

How much has this person changed with time ? It’s been two decades ,yet that person is eager to meet. What do I have to show for my self ? what have I achieved ? besides raising three wonderful children,being there for your husband , making sure you do’nt make him angry or cross him in opinion.

At the end of the day what did I do with my life ? why do my insecurities hinder my meeting with a friend ? Am I scared to disappoint that person ? cause it’s a big set  back when that person does’nt want to see you again.How do I find myself? thats it I have lost myself trying to be a great wife , mom , daughter -in -law.

Did I make an effort to make some thing of my life ? No there was never any time .So I should make an effort to meet this friend who is waking me up from my slumber, may be thats what I need ,irrespective of what follows.There that already made me feel better!

families how we love them and hate them

The unknown emotion that ties us together the unconditional love that we feel ,how can one explain it

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